Three questions, and the third one stops most of them
Is it public conduct
Something done in a public role, or a private matter. Private matters are not written about regardless of how interesting they are.
Is it necessary
Whether the piece works without the name. It usually does, and where it does the name is left out.
Would I say it to them
The one that refuses most. If I would not say it across a counter in the shop, it does not get published.
